Category Archives: Hot Moments

Whose Side is God On?

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I was sitting two thirds of the way up in the sanctuary.  That night the church would gather, and people were on different sides of a situation, which means conflict.  I was grateful the issues were not about me.  It is always easier to lead a “hot moment” when you are not the reason for the “hot.” When people arrived… Read more »

Conflict Management

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I’ve written a number of posts about conflict, getting hooked, etc.  My discovery is that leaders can LOSE LEADERSHIP in those moments that may never be regained.  Conflict management (not conflict avoidance) is a significant leadership skill. How do we lead “hot moments” full of emotion and high stakes? 1.  Get yourself to emotional neutral so that you are not… Read more »