Mike Breen has identified 2 factors in discipleship (development of others into the image of Christ): invitation and challenge. Invitation carries with it hope, relationship, and being seen as a person worthy of investment. Challenge flows from invitation. Challenge can be calling up or calling out. Either way, challenge is most effective when rooted in the relationship of invitation. We believe that bringing challenge is best… Read more »
I would guess that if we asked a group of people to identify leadership traits you would hear traits like: -vision -follow through -passion -etc. The key trait for leaders in “hot moments” is gentleness. Gentleness is not softness. It is not weakness. It is the in the scripture, “power under control.” Gentleness is the picture of a horse that… Read more »
If conflict seems to get us emotionally hooked, the next question is – how can we avoid the hooks so as to lead powerfully when hurt words are said, when hurtful actions are taken, when the shift of focus is now on us as leaders rather than the agenda that was so important? One way is to keep listening and… Read more »
Conflict is unavoidable. In fact, it is often essential to moving us together into a synergistic future. When leaders are conflict allergic, when leaders handle conflict inappropriately, the opportunity of conflict becomes an obstacle. One of the key factors of conflict is to have the conversation “outside of our chest.” That means we must avoid being “hooked” and emotionally overcommitted…. Read more »
The currency of leadership is TRUST. It is not position. As one leader boldly declared to another, when we have to state that we are the leader, we are not! Trust is the power of a leader, not position and not personality. Personality can inspire trust, but the root of trust is character, not charisma. When the people trust the… Read more »
Leadership is intentional and intensive. Leadership, over time, is about calendaring time with those we lead. If we are not with them, pouring vision and hope into them, celebrating and solving problems with them; eventually we will not lead them. Quality leadership is not done on the fly, but is intentionally thought through and intentionally scheduled. If you want to… Read more »