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Inner Work: Ambition

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The inner work is the most significant work of any leader.  Learning to lead ourselves is a precursor to leading others.  Learning to discern what is going on in our own souls is essential to understanding the hearts of others.  This inner work may be described in a few sentences, but it will take a lifetime of focus. This inner work will include… Read more »

Inner Work: Your Achilles Heel

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The inner work of the leader is the most challenging and the most essential. As a leader, you will be targeted by the enemy.  You must know your Achilles heel!  You must know where the enemy will likely come after you. You must do the hard work of reflecting upon your past and asking for the Lord to do work there that will protect… Read more »

Inner Work: Love Others

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I have a friend who is a powerful leader of prayer.  He is extremely disciplined and created to be fierce in his disposition.  And like us, the Lord has done some “inner work” in his life.  At one point he was wrestling with the Lord as to a desired assignment, wondering why the Lord would not, or had not, opened the opportunity.  The answer?… Read more »

Holy & Healthy

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Holy and Healthy – those two are connected. Emotional health powers spiritual holiness. When leaders are not emotionally healthy, under stress, angry, hurt, in need of support – the enemy lurks.  We are created human; a mystery full of wonder as the scripture declares.  Being holy is far more than doing or not doing things.  It is about patterns of worship, intake of the Presence… Read more »

Leaders Lead In Conflict

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Here’s a vital point:  Leaders will often find themselves in moments and even seasons of conflict.  How we lead through the conflict can accelerate our leadership or limit our future! On a scale of 1-10 how effective are you at leading through conflict?  What are some skills you use to navigate hot moments? When you think of conflict, what are… Read more »

Culture & Ministry: Part 2

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Cultures (and generations) collide, as we know so well.  Perhaps the clearest evidence of this in the church is in the arena of music.  Music is, at the heart, an expression of culture.  That could give us insight into why when the music is changed or rejected, people experience loss and even feel criticized. Cultures collide, but they also connect,… Read more »

Success Revisited

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Jackie went to Bible College full of dreams like every other young leader. No different than high school, some students were the cream of the crop and others, well, you know.  Jackie had fire for the Lord, but was not voted most likely to succeed.  That distinction was reserved for a few others, those favored by the masses and the profs. A few… Read more »

Good Decisions & Good Processes

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Leaders often find themselves in a critical directional decision making matrix. Making the right decision for the organization is only half of the moment. When leaders make the “right” decision for their organization but scar the process, the ethics of the process (how people were treated, what they experienced, etc.), often convolute the “rightness” of the decision. If you are leading and finding yourself in… Read more »

Do You Want to Talk or Do You Want to be Heard?

Do you want to talk or do you want to be heard?  Those are different!  When our hearts are full of fuel (anger, anxiety, etc), we often want to “get it off of our chest,” which means express it with the full fuel we are feeling.  The problem with that is that the fuel (emotion) is so overwhelming that the… Read more »

Power & Inner Character

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No one could figure that this promotion would change the heart of this leader… but it did.  Power and prestige do strange things to the human soul.  What they really do is reveal what is not settled with the Lord!  Perhaps our inner world of confidence, significance, etc. appears resolved, but when we come into power, it is as if… Read more »